34

34!! Never imagined I'd reach this age (not that I thought I'd die by now, but just never paid attention to it). Now that I'm here, I realize it's actually not bad at all.

The uncertainty of my 20s is behind me, and there's something incredibly liberating about it. Some people dread their 30s, but honestly, I'm finding more confidence and peace within myself than ever before.

Life finally makes sense in ways it never did! I know my strengths, I've learned from my mistakes, and I make choices with intention. I think this is what growing up should actually feel like..not the number, but the clarity that comes with living.

Looking ahead feels exciting rather than overwhelming. Here's to 34 and all the self-discovery that comes with it! Here's to another year in this vast universe! giving love, finding love, connecting with amazing souls, learning constantly, and embracing all the beautiful chaos that makes life worth living.

Things I've learned this far:

1. You can only control what you do. Worrying about others' actions will not get you anywhere.

2. Nothing is more important than your peace. Protect it at all costs.

3. Stop investing time and energy into people who don't align with your values.

4. Staying quiet doesn't always mean you're wrong.. sometimes it means you're wise.

5. People deserve second chances, but they have to earn them.

6. Not fighting doesn't mean you've accepted defeat. Sometimes it's better to conserve your energy for things that matter rather than wasting it on arguments.

7. If something consistently makes you anxious, it's probably not good for you. Listen to your body.

8. Enjoy life as it is. Don't exhaust yourself trying to change the unchangeable.

9. Stop chasing dreams that make you lose yourself and your loved ones. No success is worth that price.

10. Give what you want to receive - kindness, honesty, respect, and love return in unexpected ways.